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Tell them you're proud -

Telling a child you're proud of them is such a simple and powerful thing to say. 

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Teach them -

Don't just help them out with homework–actually teach them something cool. Kids love to learn new things.

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Be patient with them -

Seemingly simple tasks, like tying their shoes or zipping a coat, can take some time for children. Instead of asking them to hurry up, give them time.

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Show some affection -

A nice hug, a high five, a kiss–anything goes to show that you love them and that you're there for them.

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Let them help you out -

Kids love to feel important. Doing a task just like an adult is a big deal for them. Let them help out with some tasks. They'll love it!

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Play with them -

Just spend some time playing with your children. It can mean a lot to them.

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Keep your promises -

Keep you word. Always. If you're not sure you'll be able to keep your promise, be honest about it and say that you'll try but can't guarantee you'll deliver.

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Cheer them up when they need it -

Just like adults, kids also have bad days. Cheer them up, lighten up the mood, and try to make things better for them.

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Display their work -

It's always nice to display a drawing, a playdough sculpture, or a card your kid has given you as a gift.

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Say "yes" more often -

We say "no" to children so many times that it can give them a negative feeling. Learn how to say "yes" more frequently.

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Go to their events -

A school play, a game, or any other events that kids participate in are very important for them. And it's equally important for them to know that you're there to support them.

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Stand up for them when they need it -

It's important for kids to know you have their back. While it's important for them to fight their own battles, you can always be there as the adult who can step in if needed.

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Make them feel safe -

Create a safe and comfortable environment for your children to live in. 

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Ask their opinion -

Ask them for their input. Many times, they do have an opinion. Let them know their opinion matters.

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Show interest in the things they like -

For instance, if your kids like to watch a particular cartoon, just sit down and watch an episode with them. The same goes for any other interests your kids might have.

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Talk to them -

They will have things on their mind they want to tell you. Just have a nice conversation with your kids.

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Be present, even if you're busy -

Be approachable. Let the kids know that you're busy, but they'll have your full attention in a bit.

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Greet them with a smile -

It's important to smile at children. Always greet them with a smile. Drop them off at school with a smile. It's great to feel someone is always happy to see us.

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Celebrate their birthday -

Birthdays are a big deal for kids. Make them feel special and celebrate their birthdays with enthusiasm.

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Be silly together -

Go down to their level, be silly with them, unleash the kid within you, and you'll all have a lot of fun.

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Don't point out every single mistake they make -

Otherwise they might start thinking they're useless and can't do anything right. Let little mistakes go and focus on the big picture.

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Catch them doing good things -

We often focus on the things kids shouldn't be doing, but when we catch them doing nice things we should praise them, i.e. "I noticed you helped your sister tidying up the room. Thanks for being helpful."

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Compliment them -

Do it often, even on little things, such as the way they're dressed.

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Write nice notes to them -

Write them notes with words of encouragement. Occasionally compliment them on a particular thing they did in writing too.

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Encourage their dreams -

No matter how absurd they seem. They want to be a pirate and travel the world on a pony? Sure. Kids should be able to dream freely and let their creativity flow.

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Be honest with them -

Don't say how bad their drawing is. But also don't lie to them saying you have other commitments and can't go see their school play or attend their game, for instance.

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Make eye contact -

Look children in the eye when you talk to them. Focus on them and let them know they have your full attention.

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Make bedtime special -

Make a special bedtime routine. Whether you read them a bedtime story, or just tuck them in and kiss them goodnight, make it consistent and positive.

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Create traditions -

Your kids will remember your family traditions, and potentially carry them on, so create some if you don't have any.

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See also -

See a doctor if your kids have these symptoms

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