Depictions of elaborate daily home-cooked meals, spotless homes, and freshly baked goods, and other images of perfected domesticity have somehow made a comeback. The 'tradwife' trend refers to women who take on traditional gendered roles in their marriages in a way that's almost cosplay. Distinct from the role of a stay-at-home mom, the 'tradwife' is a product of home economics, in which the aesthetics of an idealized1950s family life are reiterated in contemporary living.

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Traditional roles -

Playing house is something many of us did as children. Traditional roles assigned to boys and girls marked the different things that would be expected of us as adults.

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Home economics -

Some women were even forced to take home economics classes. Cooking, sewing, and other tasks that would prepare us for the roles of a future domestic life.

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Tradwife -

The ‘tradwife,’ short for ‘traditional wife,' trend was highlighted all over social media for most of 2024, mirroring some concepts and expectations that for many women are now considered outdated.

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Trend emerged -

Yet the trend has somehow made these expectations desirable again, particularly in heterosexual marriages and relationships.

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Dutiful role -

Through this lens, the dutiful role of women includes baking, cooking, cleaning, and sewing, mirroring many of the skills we were supposed to acquire in home economics.

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Men as bread winners -

While many of these skills can also be hobbies, in the tradwife trend they are viewed as the counter to the bread-winning role of husbands.

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Homemaking -

To this end, a woman, or wife in the case of marriage, embraces traditional gender roles that focus on homemaking through domestic duties and family care.

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Servitude -

Analyses of the trend’s contemporary version reveal a level of servitude ingrained in its practice. The curated imagery portrays elaborate, picturesque lives.

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Picturesque lifestyle -

Smiling children scarfing down homemade sourdough bread in a spotless kitchen, no TV in sight, are pictured with the wife in the background, joyful in her contribution to her family life.

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Nothing wrong -

Of course, there is nothing inherently wrong with cooking homemade meals, restricting screen time for little ones, or any of the other principles that are depicted in these images.

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Not a critique of stay-at-home moms -

Stay-at-home moms, an honorable role that some women choose for their lives, is also not the focus of the critique of the trend.

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Glorification -

Rather, the critiques focus on the glorification of traditional gender roles through this aesthetically curated portrayal that echoes through social media.

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Neelemen -

According to Parents magazine, the trend can be sourced to Hannah Neelemen. Neeleman is a “Julliard-trained ballerina who gave up her dream to be a professional dancer when she met her husband.”

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Idyllic lifestyle -

Neeleman was later crowned Mrs. America 2023. She and her husband have eight children and live on a farm in Utah.

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Wholesome activities -

Neeleman is a powerful influencer. She adheres to traditional beauty standards and shares imagery of an idyllic home life filled with “wholesome activities far away from technology."

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Wealth -

But her followers noticed a little detail that makes Neeleman’s life possible. Her husband, Daniel, is the son of the owner of JetBlue (not to mention five other airlines).

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Stove more than some yearly salaries -

Neeleman’s stove alone costs $30,000, more than many American women take home a year from their full-time jobs.

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Tradwife vs. stay-at-home mom -

Parents Magazine outlines the difference between a tradwife and a stay-at-home mom, two terms that have been mistakenly used interchangeably.

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Temporary condition -

Stay-at-home motherhood is typically a temporary role that mothers take on, often due to impediments to adequate and affordable child care.

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Romanticizing home duties -

Tradwives are committed to adhering to traditional gender roles in a very specific manner, often romanticizing an unequal balance of home duties.

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Contradiction to modern feminist ideals -

The tradwife trend is at odds with the modern feminist ideals that seek to create a greater balance in duties and roles between men and women.

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Niche trend -

The tradwife trend is quite niche, precisely due to these feminist ideals that have already been highly integrated into society, particularly regarding gender roles.

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Perceptions of a worry-free life -

Yet, its appeal comes down to perceptions of a worry-free life for these women, as tradwives have their husbands providing for them financially.

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Feminist argument -

Of course, one of the challenges to this ideal is an issue often highlighted by the feminist movements over the decades; financial dependence on a husband.

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Most households need multiple incomes -

Most American households cannot meet their financial needs on one salary alone, due to the rising cost of living and the costs attributed to childcare.

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Partnerships can end -

In addition, partnerships can go wrong. A sudden separation can leave a woman vulnerable without a financial plan of her own and the means to support herself.

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Abusive relationships -

This issue has been a historical plight in terms of women’s emancipation, as many have found themselves trapped in abusive relationships without the means to escape.

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Circumstances can change -

Less-than-ideal circumstances can occur suddenly, without warning. Embracing the glorified tradwife trend can seem appealing for some who are eager to spend more time with their families and have a picturesque lifestyle.

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Navigate challenges -

Yet, these circumstances can change and women have to be able to navigate the challenges that may come up without fear of ending up homeless or in unfavorable circumstances.

Sources: (Parents) (The New Yorker) (The Guardian)

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Bursting the bubble of the 'tradwife' -

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So what's the issue? Click on to read more.

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Traditional roles -

Playing house is something many of us did as children. Traditional roles assigned to boys and girls marked the different things that would be expected of us as adults.

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Home economics -

Some women were even forced to take home economics classes. Cooking, sewing, and other tasks that would prepare us for the roles of a future domestic life.

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Tradwife -

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Trend emerged -

Yet the trend has somehow made these expectations desirable again, particularly in heterosexual marriages and relationships.

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Dutiful role -

Through this lens, the dutiful role of women includes baking, cooking, cleaning, and sewing, mirroring many of the skills we were supposed to acquire in home economics.

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Men as bread winners -

While many of these skills can also be hobbies, in the tradwife trend they are viewed as the counter to the bread-winning role of husbands.

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Homemaking -

To this end, a woman, or wife in the case of marriage, embraces traditional gender roles that focus on homemaking through domestic duties and family care.

Getty Images

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Servitude -

Analyses of the trend’s contemporary version reveal a level of servitude ingrained in its practice. The curated imagery portrays elaborate, picturesque lives.

Getty Images

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Picturesque lifestyle -

Smiling children scarfing down homemade sourdough bread in a spotless kitchen, no TV in sight, are pictured with the wife in the background, joyful in her contribution to her family life.

Getty Images

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Nothing wrong -

Of course, there is nothing inherently wrong with cooking homemade meals, restricting screen time for little ones, or any of the other principles that are depicted in these images.

Getty Images

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Not a critique of stay-at-home moms -

Stay-at-home moms, an honorable role that some women choose for their lives, is also not the focus of the critique of the trend.

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Glorification -

Rather, the critiques focus on the glorification of traditional gender roles through this aesthetically curated portrayal that echoes through social media.

Getty Images

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Neelemen -

According to Parents magazine, the trend can be sourced to Hannah Neelemen. Neeleman is a “Julliard-trained ballerina who gave up her dream to be a professional dancer when she met her husband.”

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Idyllic lifestyle -

Neeleman was later crowned Mrs. America 2023. She and her husband have eight children and live on a farm in Utah.

Getty Images

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Wholesome activities -

Neeleman is a powerful influencer. She adheres to traditional beauty standards and shares imagery of an idyllic home life filled with “wholesome activities far away from technology."

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Wealth -

But her followers noticed a little detail that makes Neeleman’s life possible. Her husband, Daniel, is the son of the owner of JetBlue (not to mention five other airlines).

Getty Images

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Stove more than some yearly salaries -

Neeleman’s stove alone costs $30,000, more than many American women take home a year from their full-time jobs.

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Tradwife vs. stay-at-home mom -

Parents Magazine outlines the difference between a tradwife and a stay-at-home mom, two terms that have been mistakenly used interchangeably.

Getty Images

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Temporary condition -

Stay-at-home motherhood is typically a temporary role that mothers take on, often due to impediments to adequate and affordable child care.

Getty Images

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Romanticizing home duties -

Tradwives are committed to adhering to traditional gender roles in a very specific manner, often romanticizing an unequal balance of home duties.

Getty Images

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Contradiction to modern feminist ideals -

The tradwife trend is at odds with the modern feminist ideals that seek to create a greater balance in duties and roles between men and women.

Getty Images

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Niche trend -

The tradwife trend is quite niche, precisely due to these feminist ideals that have already been highly integrated into society, particularly regarding gender roles.

Getty Images

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Perceptions of a worry-free life -

Yet, its appeal comes down to perceptions of a worry-free life for these women, as tradwives have their husbands providing for them financially.

Getty Images

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Feminist argument -

Of course, one of the challenges to this ideal is an issue often highlighted by the feminist movements over the decades; financial dependence on a husband.

Getty Images

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Most households need multiple incomes -

Most American households cannot meet their financial needs on one salary alone, due to the rising cost of living and the costs attributed to childcare.

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Partnerships can end -

In addition, partnerships can go wrong. A sudden separation can leave a woman vulnerable without a financial plan of her own and the means to support herself.

Getty Images

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Abusive relationships -

This issue has been a historical plight in terms of women’s emancipation, as many have found themselves trapped in abusive relationships without the means to escape.

Getty Images

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Circumstances can change -

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Navigate challenges -

Yet, these circumstances can change and women have to be able to navigate the challenges that may come up without fear of ending up homeless or in unfavorable circumstances.

Sources: (Parents) (The New Yorker) (The Guardian)

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