![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_6683b4e01f1b9.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050efe4a6c5.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62054f2362bc9.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_6206a43176dda.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ede08629.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f29590b3.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_6206a23f1311d.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ed9bf934.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f315bfee.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f354f31b.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_6206a18c6daaf.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ee0c745b.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f007a286.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_6206a3911fafe.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef76cf63.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_620693afe9d2b.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef2d3ff8.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050eee7d322.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ee6167dd.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f2991d29.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef624567.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef2d88a2.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef7ccd14.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_620522deb2a29.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_620693afe901b.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ede91d3d.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ed7a4430.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050edeb4092.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050ef68bbb2.jpg)
![New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/gallery/1080/na_62050f3079d91.jpg)
© Getty Images
0 / 30 Fotos
Single in a new city?
- If you've just moved to a new city, chances are you are wondering what's the best way to meet new people. Whether you are looking for friendship or something more, the best advice is to stay open to new experiences.
© Getty Images
1 / 30 Fotos
Open yourself up to meeting someone new
- Getting to know someone new is a perfect opportunity to step outside your comfort zone. Communicate your likes and dislikes to your new friend. Take the initiative if you want to spend time with them, i.e. reach out.
© Getty Images
2 / 30 Fotos
Plan a coffee date
- Plan a coffee date with your new connection. This is a great way to learn which cafes and restaurants you actually enjoy the most. If you are shy or introverted, meeting for coffee is the best way to ease into getting to know someone.
© Shutterstock
3 / 30 Fotos
Be yourself
- Be open, and don't be afraid to have a sense of humor. Laugh at yourself. Spend time discovering what each other's quirks are–that way you can build a deeper connection with your new friend.
© Getty Images
4 / 30 Fotos
Attend a singles dating meetup
- If online dating is not your cup of tea, try joining dating groups or attending a speed dating event at a local bar. Go to concerts, book readings, or attend paint night events to improve your chances of meeting someone new.
© Getty Images
5 / 30 Fotos
Join a book club
- It can be a challenge finding community in a new city. Be open to sparking conversations with others, as this will allow you to expand your circle of friends. For instance, a good way to increase your chances of meeting new people is by joining a book club in your new city.
© Shutterstock
6 / 30 Fotos
Keep it simple
- Keep things spontaneous, because there are no hard and fast rules about getting to know a new love interest. Enjoy weekend brunch and a walk around the city. Or go window shopping with your new friend. Or really anything else you both agree on.
© Getty Images
7 / 30 Fotos
Dating apps are another avenue to meet new people
- Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are ways many people are meeting new connections. This is another tool you can use to establish new friendships.
© Getty Images
8 / 30 Fotos
We win some, we lose some
- For some, online dating is not their strong suit, so they may forgo dating apps altogether. Whatever the case, it's always best to do what is most comfortable for you.
© Getty Images
9 / 30 Fotos
Set boundaries
- Talk to your new friend about your boundaries so you both feel comfortable in your new connection. To avoid confusion, be honest about your intentions. Having these types of conversations will save you the headache of misconstruing your new connection's actions.
© Shutterstock
10 / 30 Fotos
Communicate often
- Set aside time to explore your new city with your new friend. Use this time to learn more about one another. Again, it's important to let your intentions be known.
© Getty Images
11 / 30 Fotos
Tour your new city
- Play tourist for the day with your new connection and explore points of interest. Many cities have an arts and culture department. Use this as a resource to find tickets to concerts and exhibitions, for example.
© Getty Images
12 / 30 Fotos
Plan a romantic night
- Plan a romantic night out in your new city. Have your new connection take you out for an evening of live music, drinks, and dinner. Go for a walk after dinner and take in the sites of your new home.
© Shutterstock
13 / 30 Fotos
Go for happy hour after work
- Happy hour is the perfect way to get to know someone new. After work, send your new friend a message and meet at your favorite spot. Don't be shy about reaching out to your new connection.
© Getty Images
14 / 30 Fotos
Explore a local museum
- Take a weekend to explore a local museum with your new friend. Use the time you spend together to form a deeper connection.
© Getty Images
15 / 30 Fotos
Simple dates are low pressure
- Enjoy a simple date after work, maybe go for dessert, for instance. The pressure to be 'on' can be tiresome, so better to go the easy route and plan something you'll both actually enjoy. Some of the simplest dates can be the most memorable.
© Getty Images
16 / 30 Fotos
Plan a wine tasting date
- Are you interested in wine? Schedule a date with your new friend. You can enjoy a wine tasting together.
© Getty Images
17 / 30 Fotos
Explore a vineyard
- Do you live near a region that has vineyards? During springtime, plan a visit to a local vineyard. Better yet, book a day trip with your friend and enjoy the local sites.
© Getty Images
18 / 30 Fotos
Go to the movies
- What's more romantic than a night at the movies? Well, a date at a drive-in movie theater! This is also a way to learn what your new friend's tastes are in art and culture.
© Getty Images
19 / 30 Fotos
Explore a local book store
- Plan an afternoon to explore a local bookstore together. Are you a bookworm? This is an affordable way to go on date and learn about your new friend's reading habits.
© Getty Images
20 / 30 Fotos
Enjoy an art exhibit
- Diving into the local arts scene in your new city is a no-fuss way to discover something novel. You'll also learn more about your new friend.
© Getty Images
21 / 30 Fotos
Explore a park or garden
- Enjoy a walk in the park with your new love interest. This is another way to learn your way around the city. You also get to spend more time learning which places your new connection enjoys the most.
© Getty Images
22 / 30 Fotos
Spend time exercising together
- Plan some time working out together. Go for a jog or hit the gym. This is another way to gauge whether your new friend enjoys keeping a steady routine.
© Getty Images
23 / 30 Fotos
Plan a day at the beach
- You can spend time at the beach relaxing together. Pack all of your favorite drinks, snacks, and books to prepare for a day on the sand. Bring wine and watch the sunset to add a romantic edge to the outing.
© Getty Images
24 / 30 Fotos
Explore the outdoors
- Spend time enjoying the outdoors. Do you both consider yourselves outdoorsy? Then look up the nearest national park and spend the day exploring.
© Getty Images
25 / 30 Fotos
Go on a hike
- Figure out what your interests are and plan your activities around what you and your new friend have discussed. Enjoying a hike together is an ideal way to get exercise and sightseeing in while you get to know one another better.
© Getty Images
26 / 30 Fotos
Spend the holidays together
- Alone for the holidays? This is a great time to see if you can plan a dinner with your new friend. You can gift each other presents.
© Getty Images
27 / 30 Fotos
Plan a picnic
- Be open to group-centered activities like a picnic. You get a chance to observe your new friend in a group setting. Planning group activities is ideal if you want to expand your circle of friends beyond the workplace or school.
© Getty Images
28 / 30 Fotos
Create memories together
- Dating is about learning more about another person to see if something more long term can come of it. Be open to creating more memories together by leaning into that mindset. Sources: (Bustle) (The Muse)
© Getty Images
29 / 30 Fotos
© Getty Images
0 / 30 Fotos
Single in a new city?
- If you've just moved to a new city, chances are you are wondering what's the best way to meet new people. Whether you are looking for friendship or something more, the best advice is to stay open to new experiences.
© Getty Images
1 / 30 Fotos
Open yourself up to meeting someone new
- Getting to know someone new is a perfect opportunity to step outside your comfort zone. Communicate your likes and dislikes to your new friend. Take the initiative if you want to spend time with them, i.e. reach out.
© Getty Images
2 / 30 Fotos
Plan a coffee date
- Plan a coffee date with your new connection. This is a great way to learn which cafes and restaurants you actually enjoy the most. If you are shy or introverted, meeting for coffee is the best way to ease into getting to know someone.
© Shutterstock
3 / 30 Fotos
Be yourself
- Be open, and don't be afraid to have a sense of humor. Laugh at yourself. Spend time discovering what each other's quirks are–that way you can build a deeper connection with your new friend.
© Getty Images
4 / 30 Fotos
Attend a singles dating meetup
- If online dating is not your cup of tea, try joining dating groups or attending a speed dating event at a local bar. Go to concerts, book readings, or attend paint night events to improve your chances of meeting someone new.
© Getty Images
5 / 30 Fotos
Join a book club
- It can be a challenge finding community in a new city. Be open to sparking conversations with others, as this will allow you to expand your circle of friends. For instance, a good way to increase your chances of meeting new people is by joining a book club in your new city.
© Shutterstock
6 / 30 Fotos
Keep it simple
- Keep things spontaneous, because there are no hard and fast rules about getting to know a new love interest. Enjoy weekend brunch and a walk around the city. Or go window shopping with your new friend. Or really anything else you both agree on.
© Getty Images
7 / 30 Fotos
Dating apps are another avenue to meet new people
- Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are ways many people are meeting new connections. This is another tool you can use to establish new friendships.
© Getty Images
8 / 30 Fotos
We win some, we lose some
- For some, online dating is not their strong suit, so they may forgo dating apps altogether. Whatever the case, it's always best to do what is most comfortable for you.
© Getty Images
9 / 30 Fotos
Set boundaries
- Talk to your new friend about your boundaries so you both feel comfortable in your new connection. To avoid confusion, be honest about your intentions. Having these types of conversations will save you the headache of misconstruing your new connection's actions.
© Shutterstock
10 / 30 Fotos
Communicate often
- Set aside time to explore your new city with your new friend. Use this time to learn more about one another. Again, it's important to let your intentions be known.
© Getty Images
11 / 30 Fotos
Tour your new city
- Play tourist for the day with your new connection and explore points of interest. Many cities have an arts and culture department. Use this as a resource to find tickets to concerts and exhibitions, for example.
© Getty Images
12 / 30 Fotos
Plan a romantic night
- Plan a romantic night out in your new city. Have your new connection take you out for an evening of live music, drinks, and dinner. Go for a walk after dinner and take in the sites of your new home.
© Shutterstock
13 / 30 Fotos
Go for happy hour after work
- Happy hour is the perfect way to get to know someone new. After work, send your new friend a message and meet at your favorite spot. Don't be shy about reaching out to your new connection.
© Getty Images
14 / 30 Fotos
Explore a local museum
- Take a weekend to explore a local museum with your new friend. Use the time you spend together to form a deeper connection.
© Getty Images
15 / 30 Fotos
Simple dates are low pressure
- Enjoy a simple date after work, maybe go for dessert, for instance. The pressure to be 'on' can be tiresome, so better to go the easy route and plan something you'll both actually enjoy. Some of the simplest dates can be the most memorable.
© Getty Images
16 / 30 Fotos
Plan a wine tasting date
- Are you interested in wine? Schedule a date with your new friend. You can enjoy a wine tasting together.
© Getty Images
17 / 30 Fotos
Explore a vineyard
- Do you live near a region that has vineyards? During springtime, plan a visit to a local vineyard. Better yet, book a day trip with your friend and enjoy the local sites.
© Getty Images
18 / 30 Fotos
Go to the movies
- What's more romantic than a night at the movies? Well, a date at a drive-in movie theater! This is also a way to learn what your new friend's tastes are in art and culture.
© Getty Images
19 / 30 Fotos
Explore a local book store
- Plan an afternoon to explore a local bookstore together. Are you a bookworm? This is an affordable way to go on date and learn about your new friend's reading habits.
© Getty Images
20 / 30 Fotos
Enjoy an art exhibit
- Diving into the local arts scene in your new city is a no-fuss way to discover something novel. You'll also learn more about your new friend.
© Getty Images
21 / 30 Fotos
Explore a park or garden
- Enjoy a walk in the park with your new love interest. This is another way to learn your way around the city. You also get to spend more time learning which places your new connection enjoys the most.
© Getty Images
22 / 30 Fotos
Spend time exercising together
- Plan some time working out together. Go for a jog or hit the gym. This is another way to gauge whether your new friend enjoys keeping a steady routine.
© Getty Images
23 / 30 Fotos
Plan a day at the beach
- You can spend time at the beach relaxing together. Pack all of your favorite drinks, snacks, and books to prepare for a day on the sand. Bring wine and watch the sunset to add a romantic edge to the outing.
© Getty Images
24 / 30 Fotos
Explore the outdoors
- Spend time enjoying the outdoors. Do you both consider yourselves outdoorsy? Then look up the nearest national park and spend the day exploring.
© Getty Images
25 / 30 Fotos
Go on a hike
- Figure out what your interests are and plan your activities around what you and your new friend have discussed. Enjoying a hike together is an ideal way to get exercise and sightseeing in while you get to know one another better.
© Getty Images
26 / 30 Fotos
Spend the holidays together
- Alone for the holidays? This is a great time to see if you can plan a dinner with your new friend. You can gift each other presents.
© Getty Images
27 / 30 Fotos
Plan a picnic
- Be open to group-centered activities like a picnic. You get a chance to observe your new friend in a group setting. Planning group activities is ideal if you want to expand your circle of friends beyond the workplace or school.
© Getty Images
28 / 30 Fotos
Create memories together
- Dating is about learning more about another person to see if something more long term can come of it. Be open to creating more memories together by leaning into that mindset. Sources: (Bustle) (The Muse)
© Getty Images
29 / 30 Fotos
New city, new love? A guide to dating in unfamiliar territory
Tips on forming connections with new people
© Getty Images
When you land in a new city, you are immediately faced with figuring out a host of things, like where is the nearest pharmacy, bookstore, the best restaurants, hospital, and farmer's market. But you might also be just as eager to form new connections in your dating life.
Whether you are on dating apps or not, these tips will help you make the most of your new home. Want to know the most effective ways to build genuine connections with people? Then click through this gallery to find out how.
RECOMMENDED FOR YOU
![Amazing images from the early days of cinema](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/640/na_66828e5fb8806.jpg)
![From page to screen: How books are adapted into movies](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/640/na_66826bf7a3879.jpg)
![Celebrating 100 years of Columbia Pictures](https://media-manager.starsinsider.com/640/na_66448005cac77.jpg)
MOST READ
- Last Hour
- Last Day
- Last Week
-
1
CELEBRITY Relationships
-
2
LIFESTYLE Nature
-
3
LIFESTYLE Curiosities
-
4
TRAVEL Staycation
Be a tourist in your own city and fall in love all over again
-
5
HEALTH Covid-19
-
6
HEALTH Cognitive function
-
7
LIFESTYLE Bizarre
You won't believe these bizarre prison rules and regulations
-
8
HEALTH Bad habits
-
9
TRAVEL Destinations
-
10
TRAVEL Architecture