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Discuss your own childhood -

Letting your teenager get to know a bit about your history allows them to view you as an interesting person with a past, rather than just as a parental figure.

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Be open -

Make sure that your teenager is aware that no subject is off-limits, without making them feel uncomfortable or pressurized.

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Cook together -

Not only will your teenager be learning valuable skills for when they leave home, it's a great opportunity to spend time together.

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Manage discipline differently -

It is simply unadvisable to use the same methods of discipline on a teenager as you would with a small child. Be more diplomatic about it.

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Don't sugarcoat -

Sooner rather than later, your teenager will realize that life is hard, and at times unfair. Don't sugarcoat the truth when talking to them.

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Journal -

Sometimes it's easier to express yourself through the written word. Why not try journaling back and forth with your teenager?

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Be interested -

Even if your teenager's interests are not to your taste, it's crucial that you take an active and encouraging interest.

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Let them teach you -

Whether it's a game on their cell phone, or something fun and interesting they've learnt and want to share with you, let your teenager teach you a thing or two.

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Be quiet in the car -

Forcing conversation can often be counterproductive. Sometimes it's nicer and calmer to share silence with your teenager.

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Discuss concerns -

By discussing your own concerns with your teenager, this can also encourage them to be more open with you about their issues.

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Ask unexpected questions -

This essentially means talking to them as a peer rather than a parent. Catch them off guard, and see how they react!

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Avoid asking why -

Sometimes, repeated use of the word "why" is indicative of a judgmental attitude. Try to keep as open a mind as possible.

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Exercise together -

Making the effort to be active with your teenager will be great for both your relationship and your general health!

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Engage -

If your teenager is most comfortable in their own bedroom, make an effort to stop by regularly to check in on them.

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Ask for help -

Asking your teenager to help you with a task, such as washing the car, is a good way to form a connection and have a decent conversation.

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Ask about their friends -

Taking an interest in your teenager's friends shows that you care, and that you have some sense of what's going on in their life.

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Keep your anger in check -

If your teen confides in you, and you react with anger or frustration, they are far less likely to do so again in the future.

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Don't always be in teacher mode -

Teenagers can be unnecessarily irritable and resistant, unquestionably. So, don't encourage this behavior by being patronizing.

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Be persistent -

If you are continuously given one-word answers, don't give up on trying to get through to your teenager. Eventually, you will!

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Admit your mistakes -

Allowing your teenager to see that you are also a flawed character will be very helpful in getting them to relate to you in a more mature way.

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Do something fun together -

Parenting doesn't always need to be extremely serious! Put aside some time to have some fun with your teenager.

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Be understanding -

Let your teenager understand that they are not alone, and that you will be there for them, no matter what they are going through.

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Be available -

Let your teenager know that you are able to help them with anything that they need (within reason). Reassure them.

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Earn their trust -

Letting your teenager know that you respect them and are open with them will allow their confidence and trust in you to grow.

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Indulge them occasionally -

Being a teenager can be tough, but they are easily pleased. If you can afford it, buy them something nice here and there.

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Don't be too formal -

It's always nice to set aside time to have dinner as a family. But don't overdo it. The more relaxed the atmosphere, the more likely your teenager is to be open.

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Don't play detective -

Don't always be second-guessing and double-crossing your teen. Try to accept what they tell you without interrogating them.

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Let them lead -

If your teenager has a strong desire to talk to you about something, they will. Let them come to you, at least sometimes.

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Be supportive -

Always praise your teenager when they have achieved something. Let them know that they have your full support.

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Be sincere -

You can't expect your teenager to have the exact same value system as you, but you can be sincere with them about your cares, concerns, and hopes for them.

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