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Exhaustion
- Babies don't care about your sleeping schedule! When they need your help, you will know about it. This can lead to unusual sleeping hours and an overwhelming exhaustion.
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Identity
- Many people's identity is linked with what they do for a living. However, if parenting is your full-time job, you can sometimes lose a sense of who you are.
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Going out
- Your baby cannot be left alone. Therefore, going out, even if it's just to a nearby store, becomes far more of a complicated matter than it was when you only had yourself to worry about.
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Breastfeeding
- Additionally, there can be a shaming culture surrounding breastfeeding in public. Thankfully, this is changing in many places, but it still exists.
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Relatability
- People without children always get angry if a kid is kicking up a fuss on public transport, or in a supermarket. This is why it's often easier for young parents to make friends with people in similar circumstances.
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Pressure
- There is always a lot of pressure to be a perfect parent. People can be very judgmental about the behavior of a parent, and judgment can be internalized to the point of unreachable expectations for yourself.
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Unsolicited advice
- Some advice is very useful. Other advice is completely unwanted. As a new parent, you are often subjected to both, frustratingly.
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Responsibility
- Being a parent isn't a game. You are responsible for a life. This little life is completely vulnerable and entirely dependent on your care. Scary!
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Postpartum depression
- The anxiety and sadness that can come with postpartum depression is a very serious matter, and it's much more common than you think.
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Support system
- Some people have parents, siblings, and friends in close proximity that can offer a support system. For those who don't have this, however, life can be very challenging!
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Crying
- Babies cry, it's a fact of life. But when it is happening around the clock, it can really test your patience. All you can do is be patient and tend to your baby's needs.
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Diapers
- Assuming there is a working partner in the relationship, they ought to do their fair share on their days off, and whenever they are home in general. But the stay-at-home parent will need to change more diapers overall!
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Lunch
- Having a lunch break at work is very important, as it divides the day, and allows you to unwind for an hour or so. Stay-at-home parents don't have this luxury.
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Income
- Going from a two-income household to just one-income can be stressful. Some people will find it easier than others, depending on their financial situation, but it can be an extra weight to carry.
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Drinks
- A stay-at-home parent doesn't have the freedom to go out for drinks with colleagues after work. This can lead to frustration, and difficulty in maintaining close friendships.
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No co-workers
- Being a stay-at-home parent means that for the most part, you are out on your own. Sure, you can pick up the phone and perhaps you are lucky enough to have family around with a lot of free time, but it's different.
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Sick days
- If you are too sick to go to work, you can take the day off. A parent, however, does not have this as a choice. You have to just get on with things, and hope that your baby doesn't catch your illness!
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Childcare costs
- Childcare can sometimes prove to be unaffordable, which can make things very difficult. Some people won't be able to manage.
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Complaining
- It's a very natural thing to be frustrated about day-to-day annoyances, but because society views parenthood in a different way, people can be quite judgmental about a parent who complains.
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Adult conversation
- You may well find yourself missing the normal, adult conversation that you were once so accustomed to. A child's company is adorable, but it's not the same.
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Relaxing
- Something as simple as being able to relax and watch a TV show that isn't for children can prove challenging. And when you do get the chance, you may find yourself too tired to concentrate!
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Loneliness
- It's easy to forget that a very young child isn't a substitute for adult company. Therefore, a parent may find themselves increasingly lonely. This is why joining parent and baby classes is often a good idea.
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Arguments
- If you haven't been a stay-at-home parent, it might be hard to fully empathize with their concerns, which can lead to arguments and resentment between partners.
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Similarity
- If each day seems incredibly similar to the one that preceded it, this can become extremely dull and frustrating.
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Distance
- The different experiences of parenthood may result in a noticeable amount of distance in your relationship, which clashing expectations of intimacy.
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Finances
- In very bad circumstances, the working parent may become resentful and resort to financial abuse, withholding money from the stay-at-home parent.
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Fathers
- There are still some old-fashioned prejudices towards stay-at-home fathers. Thankfully, this is changing, but it still affects some men who have chosen the unpaid labor.
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Multitasking
- Learning to do several things simultaneously is often essential for a new parent. This is a useful skill to learn, but it can be exhausting!
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Asking for help
- Sometimes, things will just get too much, and you will need to ask for help. This is perfectly normal, but it can still be hard to muster the courage to ask.
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Assumptions
- It is wildly irritating when, after all the unpaid work you do, others still believe that you have an easy life. The best thing to do is to rise above this sort of talk, and not to let it bother you so much. It will be difficult, but possible!
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Exhaustion
- Babies don't care about your sleeping schedule! When they need your help, you will know about it. This can lead to unusual sleeping hours and an overwhelming exhaustion.
© Shutterstock
1 / 31 Fotos
Identity
- Many people's identity is linked with what they do for a living. However, if parenting is your full-time job, you can sometimes lose a sense of who you are.
© Getty Images
2 / 31 Fotos
Going out
- Your baby cannot be left alone. Therefore, going out, even if it's just to a nearby store, becomes far more of a complicated matter than it was when you only had yourself to worry about.
© Getty Images
3 / 31 Fotos
Breastfeeding
- Additionally, there can be a shaming culture surrounding breastfeeding in public. Thankfully, this is changing in many places, but it still exists.
© Getty Images
4 / 31 Fotos
Relatability
- People without children always get angry if a kid is kicking up a fuss on public transport, or in a supermarket. This is why it's often easier for young parents to make friends with people in similar circumstances.
© Getty Images
5 / 31 Fotos
Pressure
- There is always a lot of pressure to be a perfect parent. People can be very judgmental about the behavior of a parent, and judgment can be internalized to the point of unreachable expectations for yourself.
© Getty Images
6 / 31 Fotos
Unsolicited advice
- Some advice is very useful. Other advice is completely unwanted. As a new parent, you are often subjected to both, frustratingly.
© Getty Images
7 / 31 Fotos
Responsibility
- Being a parent isn't a game. You are responsible for a life. This little life is completely vulnerable and entirely dependent on your care. Scary!
© Getty Images
8 / 31 Fotos
Postpartum depression
- The anxiety and sadness that can come with postpartum depression is a very serious matter, and it's much more common than you think.
© Getty Images
9 / 31 Fotos
Support system
- Some people have parents, siblings, and friends in close proximity that can offer a support system. For those who don't have this, however, life can be very challenging!
© Getty Images
10 / 31 Fotos
Crying
- Babies cry, it's a fact of life. But when it is happening around the clock, it can really test your patience. All you can do is be patient and tend to your baby's needs.
© Getty Images
11 / 31 Fotos
Diapers
- Assuming there is a working partner in the relationship, they ought to do their fair share on their days off, and whenever they are home in general. But the stay-at-home parent will need to change more diapers overall!
© Getty Images
12 / 31 Fotos
Lunch
- Having a lunch break at work is very important, as it divides the day, and allows you to unwind for an hour or so. Stay-at-home parents don't have this luxury.
© Getty Images
13 / 31 Fotos
Income
- Going from a two-income household to just one-income can be stressful. Some people will find it easier than others, depending on their financial situation, but it can be an extra weight to carry.
© Getty Images
14 / 31 Fotos
Drinks
- A stay-at-home parent doesn't have the freedom to go out for drinks with colleagues after work. This can lead to frustration, and difficulty in maintaining close friendships.
© Shutterstock
15 / 31 Fotos
No co-workers
- Being a stay-at-home parent means that for the most part, you are out on your own. Sure, you can pick up the phone and perhaps you are lucky enough to have family around with a lot of free time, but it's different.
© Getty Images
16 / 31 Fotos
Sick days
- If you are too sick to go to work, you can take the day off. A parent, however, does not have this as a choice. You have to just get on with things, and hope that your baby doesn't catch your illness!
© Getty Images
17 / 31 Fotos
Childcare costs
- Childcare can sometimes prove to be unaffordable, which can make things very difficult. Some people won't be able to manage.
© Getty Images
18 / 31 Fotos
Complaining
- It's a very natural thing to be frustrated about day-to-day annoyances, but because society views parenthood in a different way, people can be quite judgmental about a parent who complains.
© Getty Images
19 / 31 Fotos
Adult conversation
- You may well find yourself missing the normal, adult conversation that you were once so accustomed to. A child's company is adorable, but it's not the same.
© Shutterstock
20 / 31 Fotos
Relaxing
- Something as simple as being able to relax and watch a TV show that isn't for children can prove challenging. And when you do get the chance, you may find yourself too tired to concentrate!
© Getty Images
21 / 31 Fotos
Loneliness
- It's easy to forget that a very young child isn't a substitute for adult company. Therefore, a parent may find themselves increasingly lonely. This is why joining parent and baby classes is often a good idea.
© Getty Images
22 / 31 Fotos
Arguments
- If you haven't been a stay-at-home parent, it might be hard to fully empathize with their concerns, which can lead to arguments and resentment between partners.
© Getty Images
23 / 31 Fotos
Similarity
- If each day seems incredibly similar to the one that preceded it, this can become extremely dull and frustrating.
© Getty Images
24 / 31 Fotos
Distance
- The different experiences of parenthood may result in a noticeable amount of distance in your relationship, which clashing expectations of intimacy.
© Shutterstock
25 / 31 Fotos
Finances
- In very bad circumstances, the working parent may become resentful and resort to financial abuse, withholding money from the stay-at-home parent.
© Getty Images
26 / 31 Fotos
Fathers
- There are still some old-fashioned prejudices towards stay-at-home fathers. Thankfully, this is changing, but it still affects some men who have chosen the unpaid labor.
© Getty Images
27 / 31 Fotos
Multitasking
- Learning to do several things simultaneously is often essential for a new parent. This is a useful skill to learn, but it can be exhausting!
© Shutterstock
28 / 31 Fotos
Asking for help
- Sometimes, things will just get too much, and you will need to ask for help. This is perfectly normal, but it can still be hard to muster the courage to ask.
© Getty Images
29 / 31 Fotos
Assumptions
- It is wildly irritating when, after all the unpaid work you do, others still believe that you have an easy life. The best thing to do is to rise above this sort of talk, and not to let it bother you so much. It will be difficult, but possible!
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Stay-at-home parenting: more challenging than you think
Just because it's not paid, doesn't mean it's not a job
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There are many negative assumptions made about stay-at-home parents, namely that their work doesn't amount to that of someone with a paid or "real" job. The truth is, not only is stay-at-home parenting a real job,
it also doesn't have a fixed start and finish to the day, like a regular job does. It is constant work, and needs to be taken very seriously.
Take a look through our gallery, inspired by Self-Made, to find many examples of why stay-at-home parenting is not an easy task at all!
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