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Bad breath -

If you're having a romantic dinner and want to increase your chances of getting lucky afterwards, skip the order of garlic bread.

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Smoking -

Similarly, many people find the smell of tobacco on someone's breath, or the smell of smoke lingering on their hair and clothes, to be a massive turnoff.

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Unruly nails -

In heteronormative circles, it's generally expected that men will have short and clean nails. While it's acceptable to challenge these norms and opt for a bolder nail appearance, excessively long nails due to poor grooming are definitely not a good look.

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Unruly nails -

Finding out that your partner has long, jagged toenails when you're about to undress can be quite a shock. If your feet are in this state, consider treating yourself to a pedicure.

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Socks in bed -

Forget about trying to hide the issue by keeping your socks on. Being completely nude besides a pair of socks is a strange, ick-inducing look. 

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Hygiene -

Personal hygiene is a big one for most people (understandably). A bad body odor, or smelly feet once the shoes come off, can really ruin a romantic moment.

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Dirty sheets -

Similarly, home hygiene is also very important. If the bedroom is a complete mess and their sheets haven't been washed since they left their mother's place, it's disgusting and a big red flag.

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Animals in the bedroom -

Allowing pets in the bedroom can be a big turnoff for people. Some animals shed a lot of fur, which may not be embraced by everyone.

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Even more disturbing, however, is if the pet is allowed in the bedroom while you're sharing an intimate moment. No one needs the disapproving gaze of an old tabby cat during a moment of passion.

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The lights -

The matter of whether to keep the lights on or off can spark disagreement, as well as being off-putting for one party. Some people prefer darkness, as they feel more at ease and free from concerns about their physical appearance. If the other partner insists on keeping them on, it could kill the vibe if someone feels uncomfortable.

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The lights -

However, if you want to admire your partner in their full glory and don't care about their perceived flaws, it may be exasperating that they prefer the lights off. A middle ground...? Candlelight! 

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Lack of enthusiasm -

If you've reached the bedroom without encountering any red flags, congrats! However, if one partner just doesn't seem into it, it can really take the wind out of the sails.

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Talking about an ex -

Bringing up an ex during a first date is usually a bad move, but bringing them up in the bedroom is something else. Open communication about sex is great, but mentioning specific past experiences should be avoided. Starting a sentence with "My ex really liked it when..." is not the way to start a sentence.

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Lack of boundaries -

Several women have shared experiences where their male partners fail to respect their boundaries. Whether they express a desire to try something new or want to do it without protection, the initial refusal should be enough. It's uncomfortable and irritating when the partner repeatedly asks, "are you sure you don't want to try?" Needless to say, this behavior really gives the ick.

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Save it for Broadway -

When your partner seems to have picked up their moves from watching adult films online, it doesn't end well. Be it excessive vocal expressions or jack-hammer movements, the performance doesn't get a top rating.

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Repositioning -

Some women reported that men often feel the need to be highly athletic, frequently switching positions in bed. This might be another behavior learned online that's for entertainment purposes, and doesn't translate to actual intimate situations.

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Faking it -

Many men claim its upsetting when they suspect their partner is faking it. It's disheartening, and also suggests communication issues in the relationship, which reduces the enjoyment for both people.

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Too much talk -

A little dirty talk is harmless, but if you're not into it or it's incessant, it could really ruin the experience for the other person. 

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Too much talk -

This isn't the only way too much talking can show up in the bedroom. In long-term relationships, if one partner brings up an unrelated subject while you're doing the deed, such as who's picking the kids up from school the next day, it can really impact the experience negatively.

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Distraction -

Have you ever been in bed with someone and noticed them glancing at the clock? Or maybe they seem compelled to check their phone whenever it buzzes? These actions clearly indicate they're not exactly engrossed in the present.

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Body insecurity -

Confidence is universally appealing. It's important to remember that you don't need to have a "perfect" body. It's hot when someone is able to let go of their insecurities and go all in. 

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Body insecurity -

If you sense that your partner is worried about their appearance, the issue isn't about their looks, but the fact they don't seem to be present and enjoying themselves. Sadly, this can be quite a big turnoff.

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Lack of attention -

If you're not enjoying yourself and your partner is oblivious, it's an unpleasant feeling. It indicates a lack of attentiveness on their part, and that you don't feel comfortable enough to discuss it with them. Overall—disappointing.

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Selfishness -

If someone doesn't reciprocate or show interest in your pleasure (despite expecting to have it all), then it's time to move on.

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Repetitive experiences -

Things can become repetitive in long-term relationships, and it's natural. However, if your partner is unwilling to address your concerns and try new things, it can really kill the mood.

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Finishing early -

Encounters can follow a set menu, where one parnter reaches their dessert, and the experience concludes, even if the other partner hasn't begun the starter. However, if one partner tends to finish quickly, it doesn't have to be a passion killer—as long as both individuals have the opportunity to enjoy themselves over the course of the evening.

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Killing the mood -

For many people, arousal begins long before the bedroom stage. However, things can happen in daily life that make it more difficult to get in the mood for physical intimacy.

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Conversational narcissist -

When you can't get a word in on a date, it often hints at what lies ahead. A person who prioritizes themselves and disregards their partner's words is likely to exhibit the same traits in the bedroom.

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Not helping out -

You might feel undervalued and resentful in your relationship if your partner isn't pulling their weight. These emotions can definitely give you the ick, making it hard to imagine intimacy and affection with them.

Sources: (Marie Claire) (Insider) (Everyday Health)

Check also: Things your partner should never say to you

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