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Feeling lonely
- A significant portion of the American population experiences loneliness, and lacks close friendships and social connections.
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Screen dependence
- Many are disillusioned with online dating and struggle with sedentary lifestyles, spending excessive time on screens.
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Public health crisis
- In a stark declaration that underscores the gravity of the issue, in 2023 the US Surgeon General deemed America's loneliness epidemic an "urgent public health crisis."
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Alert
- A Surgeon General's Advisory is a public statement that alerts Americans to a critical public health concern. It outlines the issue’s gravity and provides specific recommendations for addressing it.
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Isolation impact
- This advisory underscores the vital role of social connection in individual and community well-being, while also highlighting the severe consequences of social isolation.
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Understanding the issue
- By synthesizing decades of research from diverse fields like sociology, psychology, neuroscience, political science, economics, and public health, the advisory illuminates the multifaceted factors that shape social connections in today's world.
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In decline
- Data suggests a decline in social connectedness among Americans across various measures. While inconsistencies in research methods make precise quantification challenging, consistent declines observed over time using the same metrics point to a concerning trend.
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What are the causes?
- The advisory highlights several key factors contributing to the decline in social connection, including changes in individual social participation, demographic shifts, community engagement, and the evolving role of technology.
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The good and the bad
- Regarding technology, the advisory acknowledges the complex and multifaceted nature of its impact on our relationships. Numerous studies and reviews have explored this issue, revealing both potential benefits and potential harms.
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Keeping in touch
- Online support groups, for example, offer a valuable platform for individuals to share their personal experiences and connect with others. These groups facilitate the exchange of information, advice, and emotional support, fostering a sense of community and mutual aid.
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Opposite effect
- Conversely, a US-based study found that individuals spending over two hours daily on social media were twice as likely to report increased feelings of social isolation compared to those using it for less than 30 minutes.
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Us vs. them
- The advisory also highlights a societal factor: declining social cohesion. Trust in fellow citizens and institutions has plummeted. In 1972, nearly half of Americans trusted others, but by 2016 that number dipped to 30%. This coincides with a surge in political polarization, reaching near historic highs.
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Loneliness data
- Beyond subjective feelings of loneliness, objective data reveals how real-life social networks are shrinking, and social participation is declining. From 2003 to 2020, the average time spent alone increased significantly, rising from 285 minutes per day to 333 minutes per day.
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Loneliness data
- This translates to an alarming 24 additional hours of solitude each month.
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Friendship shortage
- A study by the American Survey Center revealed that a significant portion of the population, roughly one in eight Americans, reports having no friends at all.
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Hard to maintain
- Even those with friends find it increasingly difficult to maintain these relationships, due to the frenetic pace of modern life and the decline of traditional social hubs like religious organizations and civic clubs.
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Becoming engaged
- Despite evolving definitions of community, traditional community involvement (e.g. religious groups, clubs, etc.) has declined since the 1970s. In 2018, only 16% of Americans reported feeling strongly attached to their local community.
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Life-threatening
- The advisory emphasizes how social connection can be a matter of life and death. Research consistently shows that socially connected individuals live longer, while those experiencing social deficits (isolation, loneliness, poor relationships, etc.) face a significantly higher risk of premature death.
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Solving the loneliness epidemic
- Imagine a vibrant hub where friends from every corner of your life could naturally gravitate towards each other. A place where deeper, more meaningful connections could blossom organically.
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Simple fix
- The Atlantic journalist Ellen Cushing offers a compelling solution to the loneliness epidemic: more parties! According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, a mere 4.1% of Americans attended or hosted a social event on an average weekend or holiday in 2023, underscoring the need for increased social gatherings in Americans' lives.
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No fun
- The decline in social gatherings is starkly illustrated by the recent demise of Party City, a once-dominant retailer synonymous with celebration. Years of dwindling sales and mounting debt ultimately led to its closure, a stark reflection of a nation seemingly losing its appetite for fun.
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Where are the parties?
- While 84% of Americans enjoy birthday parties, a significant gap exists between desire and reality. A 2023 YouGov poll revealed that only 59% actually attended one in the previous year, highlighting a disconnect between societal expectations and actual social experiences.
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Where are the parties?
- A 2022 YouGov poll revealed a surprising disconnect: while 84% of Americans enjoy birthday parties, only 28% expressed a strong likelihood of hosting one themselves. This phenomenon, known as "diffusion of responsibility" in group psychology, suggests that we all expect others to take the initiative.
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Who's hosting it?
- We crave parties, yet few feel personally motivated to organize them. It's as if people expect them to just materialize out of thin air.
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Taking initiative
- Social psychologists emphasize the importance of individual agency in fostering social connection. Intimacy and togetherness–the antidotes to the crushing loneliness that plagues many–are precisely what parties cultivate.
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Benefits
- Cozy gatherings on chilly evenings, surrounded by loved ones, the cheerful clatter of bottles in the recycling bin, the lingering help with cleanup–these are the hallmarks of a truly enjoyable social experience.
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Making an effort
- While these moments may seem simple, they require conscious effort and intentionality.
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More parties
- Cushing suggests a simple yet powerful solution: host two parties per year. Two feels manageable, and following a "chain-letter" principle (each party with at least 10 guests and a reciprocal hosting ethic) can significantly increase social invitations.
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Chain reaction
- If everyone adheres to this model, each person could potentially receive 20 party invitations annually, and potentially many more as the social network expands.
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Keep it simple
- They don't need to be extravagant, formal, or even hosted at a special venue. The essence lies in creating opportunities for social connection.
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Opening up
- As Cushing emphasizes, parties can take any form, from a Super Bowl gathering to a casual picnic or a lively house party. The key is to invite people in. Sources: (The Atlantic) (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services)
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Feeling lonely
- A significant portion of the American population experiences loneliness, and lacks close friendships and social connections.
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Screen dependence
- Many are disillusioned with online dating and struggle with sedentary lifestyles, spending excessive time on screens.
© Shutterstock
2 / 32 Fotos
Public health crisis
- In a stark declaration that underscores the gravity of the issue, in 2023 the US Surgeon General deemed America's loneliness epidemic an "urgent public health crisis."
© Shutterstock
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Alert
- A Surgeon General's Advisory is a public statement that alerts Americans to a critical public health concern. It outlines the issue’s gravity and provides specific recommendations for addressing it.
© Shutterstock
4 / 32 Fotos
Isolation impact
- This advisory underscores the vital role of social connection in individual and community well-being, while also highlighting the severe consequences of social isolation.
© Shutterstock
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Understanding the issue
- By synthesizing decades of research from diverse fields like sociology, psychology, neuroscience, political science, economics, and public health, the advisory illuminates the multifaceted factors that shape social connections in today's world.
© Shutterstock
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In decline
- Data suggests a decline in social connectedness among Americans across various measures. While inconsistencies in research methods make precise quantification challenging, consistent declines observed over time using the same metrics point to a concerning trend.
© Shutterstock
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What are the causes?
- The advisory highlights several key factors contributing to the decline in social connection, including changes in individual social participation, demographic shifts, community engagement, and the evolving role of technology.
© Shutterstock
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The good and the bad
- Regarding technology, the advisory acknowledges the complex and multifaceted nature of its impact on our relationships. Numerous studies and reviews have explored this issue, revealing both potential benefits and potential harms.
© Shutterstock
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Keeping in touch
- Online support groups, for example, offer a valuable platform for individuals to share their personal experiences and connect with others. These groups facilitate the exchange of information, advice, and emotional support, fostering a sense of community and mutual aid.
© Shutterstock
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Opposite effect
- Conversely, a US-based study found that individuals spending over two hours daily on social media were twice as likely to report increased feelings of social isolation compared to those using it for less than 30 minutes.
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Us vs. them
- The advisory also highlights a societal factor: declining social cohesion. Trust in fellow citizens and institutions has plummeted. In 1972, nearly half of Americans trusted others, but by 2016 that number dipped to 30%. This coincides with a surge in political polarization, reaching near historic highs.
© Getty Images
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Loneliness data
- Beyond subjective feelings of loneliness, objective data reveals how real-life social networks are shrinking, and social participation is declining. From 2003 to 2020, the average time spent alone increased significantly, rising from 285 minutes per day to 333 minutes per day.
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Loneliness data
- This translates to an alarming 24 additional hours of solitude each month.
© Shutterstock
14 / 32 Fotos
Friendship shortage
- A study by the American Survey Center revealed that a significant portion of the population, roughly one in eight Americans, reports having no friends at all.
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Hard to maintain
- Even those with friends find it increasingly difficult to maintain these relationships, due to the frenetic pace of modern life and the decline of traditional social hubs like religious organizations and civic clubs.
© Shutterstock
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Becoming engaged
- Despite evolving definitions of community, traditional community involvement (e.g. religious groups, clubs, etc.) has declined since the 1970s. In 2018, only 16% of Americans reported feeling strongly attached to their local community.
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Life-threatening
- The advisory emphasizes how social connection can be a matter of life and death. Research consistently shows that socially connected individuals live longer, while those experiencing social deficits (isolation, loneliness, poor relationships, etc.) face a significantly higher risk of premature death.
© Shutterstock
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Solving the loneliness epidemic
- Imagine a vibrant hub where friends from every corner of your life could naturally gravitate towards each other. A place where deeper, more meaningful connections could blossom organically.
© Shutterstock
19 / 32 Fotos
Simple fix
- The Atlantic journalist Ellen Cushing offers a compelling solution to the loneliness epidemic: more parties! According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, a mere 4.1% of Americans attended or hosted a social event on an average weekend or holiday in 2023, underscoring the need for increased social gatherings in Americans' lives.
© Shutterstock
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No fun
- The decline in social gatherings is starkly illustrated by the recent demise of Party City, a once-dominant retailer synonymous with celebration. Years of dwindling sales and mounting debt ultimately led to its closure, a stark reflection of a nation seemingly losing its appetite for fun.
© Getty Images
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Where are the parties?
- While 84% of Americans enjoy birthday parties, a significant gap exists between desire and reality. A 2023 YouGov poll revealed that only 59% actually attended one in the previous year, highlighting a disconnect between societal expectations and actual social experiences.
© Shutterstock
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Where are the parties?
- A 2022 YouGov poll revealed a surprising disconnect: while 84% of Americans enjoy birthday parties, only 28% expressed a strong likelihood of hosting one themselves. This phenomenon, known as "diffusion of responsibility" in group psychology, suggests that we all expect others to take the initiative.
© Shutterstock
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Who's hosting it?
- We crave parties, yet few feel personally motivated to organize them. It's as if people expect them to just materialize out of thin air.
© Shutterstock
24 / 32 Fotos
Taking initiative
- Social psychologists emphasize the importance of individual agency in fostering social connection. Intimacy and togetherness–the antidotes to the crushing loneliness that plagues many–are precisely what parties cultivate.
© Shutterstock
25 / 32 Fotos
Benefits
- Cozy gatherings on chilly evenings, surrounded by loved ones, the cheerful clatter of bottles in the recycling bin, the lingering help with cleanup–these are the hallmarks of a truly enjoyable social experience.
© Shutterstock
26 / 32 Fotos
Making an effort
- While these moments may seem simple, they require conscious effort and intentionality.
© Shutterstock
27 / 32 Fotos
More parties
- Cushing suggests a simple yet powerful solution: host two parties per year. Two feels manageable, and following a "chain-letter" principle (each party with at least 10 guests and a reciprocal hosting ethic) can significantly increase social invitations.
© Shutterstock
28 / 32 Fotos
Chain reaction
- If everyone adheres to this model, each person could potentially receive 20 party invitations annually, and potentially many more as the social network expands.
© Shutterstock
29 / 32 Fotos
Keep it simple
- They don't need to be extravagant, formal, or even hosted at a special venue. The essence lies in creating opportunities for social connection.
© Shutterstock
30 / 32 Fotos
Opening up
- As Cushing emphasizes, parties can take any form, from a Super Bowl gathering to a casual picnic or a lively house party. The key is to invite people in. Sources: (The Atlantic) (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services)
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Party's over: Bureau of Labor Statistics reports a social deficit in America
Recent data reveals a decline in social gatherings
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Neighbors gathering, kids playing, the aroma of grilling burgers filling the air… While heartwarming, this may seem like a distant memory for many Americans. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the number of Americans attending or hosting social events on an average weekend or holiday has suffered a staggering 35% decrease since 2004.
This suggests a troubling disconnect between people’s desire for connection and their willingness to actively foster it. As loneliness emerges as a modern epidemic, are Americans simply too busy, or too afraid, to throw a party? Let's investigate the factors contributing to this social disconnect. Click on for more.
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